common identity

Is a common human identity possible? Can we accept and value our differences while recognizing our essential unity and interdependence? Can we reconcile our cultural diversity, and our many secondary identities, within a framework of oneness?

Seldom have I come across a story that better illustrates the human capacity for oneness than the story I read this morning in the New York Times. This is the story of Orel and Marya, who found themselves sharing a hospital room as a result of a conflict in which they each became victims of the other’s “side”. If you are interested in a world at peace, you should read this story for a clue regarding how such a world might be established:

Picture of Orel and Marya

Story of Orel and Marya

Without doubt, this story reveals a spiritual truth that is the key to resolving so many conflicts in today’s troubled world. May Orel and Marya, and their families, serve as an example to us all.

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4 Comments»

  Sholeh wrote @

Beautiful, and sad, story. Thank you for bringing it to our attention.

  Barney wrote @

Thank you so much for sharing this inspiring story. I’ve no doubt those who claim to be worldly wise will say that it is “unrealistic” to expect the peace of the world to be based on such “childish” behaviour, but I’ve no doubt that unity and peace must be founded on the forgiveness and healing illustrated by this story.

  Prema wrote @

“Can we reconcile our cultural diversity, and our many secondary identities, within a framework of oneness?”

It seems that we doubt our capacity for oneness when there is a fear of a loss of cultural diversity or any portion of our identity. In discussions about conflict, some feel that it is this very loss of identity that creates aggression, and thus we must ensure that conflicting parties somehow maintain their identities to prevent them from fighting. Yet when I read stories about families like those of Marya and Orel, identity is secondary in the face of overcoming adversity and seeing humanity in each other despite pain.

I struggle to explain this sometimes, and am thankful there are stories that express our capacity for oneness far more eloquently!

  Michael Walsh wrote @

This story serves as an ideal example of amazing inner strength of children to heal and survive the absurd tragedies brought on by adult conflicts.

Could you honestly explain to a child that the violence was “justified” and the other side is an “evil enemy?”
That the conflict must go on because the other side is in the wrong?

Einstein famously quoted that “Peace is not achieved by force but through Understanding.”
The more damage or claimed “victory” killings of opposition leaders by one side– results only in more bitter and decisive retaliation by the other. The ultimate example is the martyrs who blow themselves up to destroy and harm the “enemy”. Destruction accelerates the downward vortex into bigger and more devastating attacks and warfare.

Conversely, as peace is emboldened by overtures to negotiate, compromise and settle territorial disputes, the upward vortex of progress and reconciliation can take hold– if there is a truce to stop the violence. But as long as the military hawks and extremists on each side continue to sow discord, promote violence and rule out negotiations, peace treads on very thin ice indeed.


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